College? Homeschooler's Can't Get into a College!

Our oldest just graduated high school and we've been navigating college applications, testing, enrollment, and FAFSA. Here's what we've learned: 

Can Homeschoolers go to College?

Absolutely! Homeschoolers can thrive in the college setting. According to HSLDA, a review of several independent studies demonstrates that homeschoolers score above and beyond their public schooled peers of like age. That means that homeschoolers might actually have an easier time in college than public and private school students!

What do I need to do to ensure my homeschooler can go to college???

As parents, the best thing we can do is provide our children with the best possible education. If we support them in pursuing their interests throughout their educational journey, they will generally do the rest. But, that doesn't mean we are "off the hook" so to speak. We need to do our research. Each college and university will have different requirements, but ALL will require your homeschooler's high school transcripts. Scary words, I know! But they're actually not that difficult to create. 

First, remember that you should keep detailed records of what you study!

I recommend starting to keep careful records when your child reaches Seventh or Eighth grade. This will give you time to practice with different programs or techniques. Some homeschool programs include tracking software and templates. Schoolhouse Teachers, for example, has AppleCore included in your subscription. Applecore will allow you to create your transcripts easily, and you can keep track of grades, activities, field trips, and attendance. Time4Learning also provides a transcript template and keeps track of your students hours of study and grades. Some parents utilize a physical gradebook whereas others create an Excel spreadsheet. The important thing is that you keep track! You state's education website is a great source, too. 

How do you determine credits? One high school credit equals about 120-180 hours of instruction. That's about 1 hour a day, five days a week, throughout the school year. If your student attends a co-op or takes a course outside of your home, you can still award credit for these activities, and partial credits are completely normal. Most states have a minimum number of credits to meet graduation requirements. In the United States, your student will need 18-24 credits to graduate (you'll want to check your state guidelines). 

But wait...isn't there testing? What happened to the SAT & ACT?

Yes, your student will need to take some kind of standardized test to enroll in college courses. Many local high schools will allow your homeschooler to take the ACT/SAT with their 10th-12th graders. Call the office to find out when they offer the test and see if they'll let your student jump in! Another option is to call a local testing center at a community college to see if they proctor one of these exams. They will usually let you set up a time to come and take the examination. Our graduate opted not to take the SAT/ACT and instead chose to take the Accuplacer test. This test is taken at the local community college or university and is proctored in their testing center. In our case, the test was taken on a computer. If the college or university your child wants to attend isn't nearby, no problem! The testing school will send the results to your selected college or university. Also, if your student fails a specific portion of the exam, they can retake just that portion for around $5. 

The long and short of it is that yes, your homeschooled graduate can attend any college or university they want. Filling out your FAFSA is pretty much the same as it is for a public school student, and yes, your student can qualify for Scholarships, Grants, and Student loans. There is definitely a learning curve when navigating the application process, but it is not much different than it was when I navigated it as a newly graduated public schooler. Don't let fear that your student can't get into a good college stop you from homeschooling through high school. Many of the best colleges even prefer and seek out homeschooled students!

5 Misconceptions About Homeschooling

As we prepare to start our fifteenth year of homeschooling, we find ourselves facing the same basic misconceptions that we've endured for over a decade. As a homeschooler, constantly addressing these falsehoods can become tedious, and it can be difficult to refrain from making a sarcastic comment when confronted with apparent disdain and ignorance.

Here are some of the more common misconceptions we've run into in the last fifteen years....

Misconception Number One: You get to sleep in....

I don't know how it is for every other homeschooling family, but our children almost NEVER sleep in (unless they are sick). In fact, with seven children between 18 months and 19 years, sleeping through the night is 'iffy' most nights, let alone sleeping in until 7:00 am. If one or more of our children sleep until 7am it's a rare morning. I might not have that mad dash to get children on a bus in the morning, but we are definitely up and at 'em bright and early, just like most other families with children. Since we don't subsist on cold cereal and Poptarts, we are in the kitchen making breakfast by 8am.

Misconception Number Two: You get to relax all day while your children watch "educational" TV

To be honest, there have been days, especially during the early or later stages of pregnancy or during illness, where our "schooling" consisted of a few more episodes of "The Magic School Bus" or "Popular Mechanics Kids" than I might prefer, but that's the benefit of homeschooling. It adjusts to what is happening in your life and family right then and there. Each minute of each day. That means some days we might watch television -- but it also means we might spend the entire day at a museum, hiking through the woods, or reading a great piece of literature. There are no "school" bells to stop our learning for the day, and more often than not, it begins early in the morning, measuring out ingredients to make breakfast and continues until the lights are turned off for bed at night (unless of course we're studying the stars). With homeschooling, there are no true "days off" or weekends because every day is a learning experience, filled to the brim with teachable moments. 

Misconception Number Three: Every Day is a Pajama Day

I know some people really, really love their pajamas. That's just not me. It's a rare day when I come downstairs and start breakfast without getting dressed for the day and making the bed first. But, for my kids, it's more of a variant. If we have places to go, I will send them to get dressed for the day right after breakfast. If being in their pajamas is hampering their learning for a time, I will have them get dressed before coming to the breakfast table. Other days, I might not remind them until lunch. And yes, there have been times when they wear their pajamas all day. If they are comfortable, learning, happy, and healthy, what clothing they wear shouldn't matter. That's one of the glories of homeschooling; it adapts to what works for you. Truly, is there anything better than cuddling up with a good book under a soft blanket in front of a fire with a cup of hot cocoa handy? Don't you wish you could have done that during your school days? I certainly do!

Misconception Number Four: You shouldn't homeschool if you don't have a degree

While this argument might seem valid to some, a college degree doesn't mean a person will be a good teacher, able to share or impart a passion for learning onto their pupils. To suggest that a normal adult parent is incapable of teaching their young children basic concepts is absurd. Parents are natural educators of their children. It is parents that teach their children how to speak (though typically unintentionally), parents that potty train their sons/daughters, parents that teach life skills (dressing, brushing hair/teeth) and parents that divest the knowledge of right and wrong to their children from the youngest of ages. Parents are natural teachers and advocates for their children, knowing them better than any strange adult in an institutional classroom ever could, with an intense desire to see their child succeed and the determination to find the best methods to ensure that success. A loving parent can do far more for their child's education than a horde of "education experts" intent on creating a cookie cutter methodology of education. 

Misconception Number Five: It's Easy!

Of all the things I have done or attempted to do in my life, homeschooling is by far the most difficult. It's so much more than being a Mom or a Teacher. It's both jobs, plus cook, custodian, and counselor all mixed into one, with no breaks, no aides in the classroom that can take over for a few minutes, and no Principal to delegate discipline to. It is challenging in every aspect. Keeping up with grade level expectations, researching learning models, teaching methods, and constantly evaluating and adjusting lessons so they can benefit your child/children the most. It's humbling to know that your children's success depends entirely on you and your ability to provide them with a quality education and the foundation for a good life. There are power struggles, daily learning lessons, tears (both yours and your children's), and sometimes, you learn more about yourself and your preconceived notions than you might like. It is the single most difficult and rewarding calling I can imagine.


There are many other misconceptions about homeschooling, like that pesky thing about socialization or that homeschoolers can't get accepted into big-name universities, but we'll talk about those later.

Busy Days

 Long absence....but we're back!

It has been several years since I've posted on here....so what's happened in all that time? 

Well, life has been busy. To begin with, I took a step back when we decided to move. AGAIN! I didn't think it would be quite this long of a break, but there we were, renting a 900 sq. ft. three-bedroom cabin with six children, two cats, and no washer or dryer. With the FLU! Yes, we moved at the height of flu season, and we had that wretched stomach bug for almost a month. It was miserable to say the least. Also, it was a true realization that I'd been spoiled our entire marriage, because I never needed to go to a laundromat before that time. Weekly visits to a laundromat with six children were not easy, but we took our school work with us and made the best of the long tables. I didn't have time to blog.

Fast-forward about six months, and we were moving again, this time into a house. Some things are absolutely picturesque: A river runs at the edge of our backyard, and we have an enormous yard, trees, chickens, and a pool. But, there were some drawbacks with the house (the previous owners were heavy smokers, which meant a LOT of cleaning), some mold, and old carpet to deal with. It's been a slow process. We've been here for around six years, and in that time, I accepted a position teaching English online at a community college and ESL online in virtual classes. We also welcomed a foreign exchange student from Brazil for one school year. That was an amazing experience! He went home to Brazil, and a couple of months later, just as we were getting used to taking one vehicle as a family again, we learned we were expecting our 7th child! I told you life has been busy!!

We welcomed our seventh child in the beginning of 2024. He is amazing. Are you keeping track? We now have three sons and four daughters! That's growth for you. But, we have the "exchange bug" and last school year, we welcomed another foreign exchange student, this time a young lady from Finland. So we have two host children (who we are blessed to still talk with regularly) and seven biological children. Crazy, right?

As of May we have officially graduated our oldest child. That feels a bit surreal when we think about it. We are sending him off to college at the end of this month, and I am going back to college to start on my doctoral degree as he begins his first semester. Someone asked me why I wanted to go back to school again, and all I could say is that, for me, college courses are refreshing. Are they work? YES! But they also really push me to do something for myself and keep me motivated. 

So many other things have happened in the last six years, but I'll try to get to some of those later. Will I keep up with the blog now? Boy, I don't know, but I sure hope so!